Wednesday, June 30, 2010

FLaw and Order

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5 comments:

  1. I think you should only ever invest time in someone if they are willing to do the same.

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  2. I think your cut and run instincts and these guys behavior are two separate things. Both seemed to drop contact after you slept with them. I don't want to hear any excuses. If a boy wants to see you again, he will. Especially in 4 weeks. One thing we have to acknowledge is that by sleeping with these guys so soon, maybe you are setting them up to cut and run? I don't know, just a theory of mine.

    Your reaction to them is an entirely different thing. I don't know how you are reacting to them, seeing as how I only know your words. Why do you say that you are the one cutting and running?

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  3. turnjacson: does it still count as investing if the time was only mental time lol! honestly I know all this but I let a lot of normal rules slide because of my current dating situation (blog coming soon to explain more).

    Life: Both these boys were basically just supposed to be for summer "booty" fun so I'm not sure the sex on the first date no no really applies...but who knows...maybe it does. Intelligence Officer is different because the thing is...I won't let him come over to my place...but if I lifted that ban...he'd be here asap. So the thing with him is a bit different.

    Twitter Guy...well...I don't know what to say...we'll talk again about it after you read tomorrow's blog where I hopefully clearly explain the final outcome.

    The cutting and running is sort of just like...I expect that both boys want to keep me in their stables for down the road. Which I might have been fine with, frankly I was just keeping them in my stable. But because I don't feel IO chased it hard enough and Twitter Guy really fucked it up (again blog post tomorrow)...if they did call/text/message/etc. I'm good. I'm done. I'm out. I really just mean like cutting ties. I know lol I can be confusing.

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  4. Life: And sorry I should also clarify...with Twitter Guy I'm cutting and running way too late...the point is likely moot to begin with...lol.

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  5. Ah, I see! It's hard to know the whole story from a blog post :) Okay, now I want it to be tomorrow already *taps foot* You have....12 minutes ;p

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